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The
4 Pitfalls To Avoid In Creating What You Desire
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By Leianne Wilson
I have been in the field of metaphysics for 25 years and have had a lot
of experience with manifesting. It is a process, and everyday is another
day in the adventure of discovering what incredibly powerful creators we
are. In my experience, these are the most common pitfalls that we all
can fall into, consciously and unconsciously, that can block us from
manifesting what we desire.
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Lack of Self Worth
Let us be clear here. This is not about Self Esteem. Self
Esteem is something you build, based on a bunch of reasons
why you justify yourself as a good person. If you have Self
Worth you don’t need reasons. You already are a wonderful
being, and you know it. There is no need to justify it. It
just is….that is Self Worth.
With out Self Worth you feel unconsciously unworthy of what
you desire. What you desire will make you feel good, that’s
why you want it. You must feel good already in order to
attract a desire that makes you feel good. Like attracts
like.
Self Esteem makes you feel unworthy, because you are
reaching out of need, for reasons to justify your
worthiness. That counter acts attracting what you desire.
When you have to talk yourself into believing you are
worthy, with a bunch of reasons why, you are actually
reaffirming to yourself you are unworthy, otherwise you
wouldn’t have to talk yourself into it. You end up
attracting more of the same. You end up attracting more
unworthiness.
“You are already ok” as we say in Life Shaping. Already
being ok comes from a space of honoring oneself as is,
already worthy. That attracts experiences that make you feel
good based on already feeling good. Then you are attracting
your desires based on already feeling good enough to be
worth experiencing your desires.
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Letting Others Influence You
What you think and feel creates your reality. This means
that your perception of how things are, and should be,
consciously and unconsciously, shape your life. The question
is where did your perceptions come from?
Have you ever read a book that changed your life? Have you
ever seen a character in a movie that you wanted to be more
like? Have you ever been told by some one you are really bad
at something? These are all ways other people have
influenced you.
How many times have you had what you thought was a great
idea and were all gung-ho, until some one else came along
and said something to you about it, that just deflated you.
Suddenly the grand brainstorm becomes silly and
inconsequential. Then later you discover some else is out
there capitalizing on that idea, doing just great with it,
and you say quietly to yourself “I knew it was a good idea”.
What you think and believe attracts into your life just
that. If you change your mind so does life in what it serves
to you. Only your thoughts determine what life you will
create. What do other peoples thoughts have to do with it.
Their thoughts, opinions, suggestions, feedback, input are
just to help you clarify which thoughts you want to choose
to stay grounded in, to create what you want. It is your
choice, don’t just make it theirs by letting their thoughts
determine yours.
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Conflicting Beliefs
You have lots, and lots, and lots of beliefs. You have
learned them all from all kinds of sources, everything from
TV to parents. These are all subjective sources. The beliefs
they passed to you were passed to them, and they have been
passed to them through a long chain of others. This makes
for a lot of differing beliefs.
You have lots of conflicting beliefs. So many, you can’t
keep them all straight, so they get backlogged into your
subconscious. Conflicting beliefs send out mixed and garbled
signals to The Ultimate Source. It is like reading a
purchase order after a glass of water has been spilled all
over it. Conflict creates distortion, which ends up
manifesting as mixed and garbled fulfilled requests in the
form of messy situations, lacking conditions and not so
desirable circumstances.
If you clean up your beliefs, and choose the ones that
serve you, you can identify the conflicting ones and toss
them away. It is when you choose to believe in what supports
manifesting your desires that you start sending clear
signals to The Ultimate Source. Then it can easily deliver
to you clear reflections of what you desire in the
situations, conditions and circumstances of your life.
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Losing the Faith
I believe this to be the most powerful factor that deprives
you from what you want. You simply aren’t sure you can have
it. You don’t believe your thoughts and feelings create your
reality, and that all you have to do is send out a clear
request, and it will go into the works of manifestation.
When you really believe, it becomes. If you struggle with
this concept, find your faith. Where ever it may be, in a
book, in a church, in a website, with a friend. Become a
collector of stories where faith has paid off. Pay attention
to the small things that you think and feel about, that you
notice turn up in your reality. Record them!!! Other wise
you tend to forget, that’s why we created your Wizer
Journal.
More often than not, if what you want is not in your life
now, it is because you probably have fallen unknowingly into
a combination of any of these pitfalls. The trick is to
figure out how to move beyond them and get to manifesting
your desires. If you’re feeling stuck and confused about how
to get what you want, you may really get a lot out of a
visit to The Wishing Tree.
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