The Three Most Important Ingredients To Making A Wish Come True
by Leianne Wilson
Making a wish come true is like baking a cake. It takes a few different
ingredients, mixed together, to turn it into a delicious treat. By
themselves, each ingredient is important, but it isn’t until they are
all combined, that the magic begins to happen. Wishes are the same way.
They need to be mixed with the right ingredients to turn them into
something you get to experience in your life.
When you have the right mix, then you can sit back and
let the oven do the work. When you are working on making a
wish real it is all in the preparation and combining. Then
you can sit back and let “The Ultimate Source” (God, The
Universe, Your Higher Power, what ever you chooses to call
it) do the work. You will still have to keep an eye on what
is cooking in the oven, maybe adjust the temperature. Paying
attention keeps you alert and aware of its progress (you
wouldn’t want to burn your wish).
What do you want? Why do you want it? What’s the bottom
Coming up with something you wish for is easy. It’s asking
yourself some introspective questions like “why do you want
it” and “what purpose does it serve me”. Humans are
emotionally motivated. Everything we want is based on the
desire to experience an emotion. It’s not the thing that you
really want, but the experience you anticipate enjoying.
What is it you really want? What are you anticipating you
will experience from having your wish come true? What is the
emotion you are looking to feel? What quality of life are
you really aching to experience?
It is the experience you want to be wishing for, not the
When you are clear about what you really want to
“experience” The Ultimate Source will focus its attention on
bringing it into your reality.
Being clear on what you desire to experience allows for
flexibility. When you are focused on a wish based on your
true desire (the experience you anticipate) you open up more
ways for The Ultimate Source to deliver it.
The truth is that you are creating your life every moment
of every day. Most people do it unconsciously. The whole
point is to do it consciously (that’s what
Life Shaping is all about).
If you had all the ingredients in place you would already
have your cake. You would already be enjoying your wish. If
you aren’t already experiencing your wish it means you are
missing one of the ingredients. You are missing thoughts and
feelings that match your wish. You can not experience your
wish unless deep inside yourself your thoughts and feelings
are in alignment with receiving it. It is kind of like
trying to grow a water lily in the desert. Your wish needs a
fertile environment that supports it happening, other wise
it will wither and die.
Think about how easy it is to get distracted when you are
making a cake. The phone rings and you have a conversation
with someone that gets you thinking about something else.
You see something out the window, or get distracted with
another task, next you know you can’t remember which
ingredients have made it into the cake batter.
Your thoughts and feelings regarding your wish fluctuate
and change as you interact with your world. Sometimes those
fluctuations can cause you to get off track. Sometimes you
thought you were on track and never actually were. It would
be like mixing up the cake batter, and thinking that “it’s
no big deal” to skip the baking powder because you didn’t
have any in the cupboard. You need baking powder in order
for the cake to rise. It may be only one ingredient, but it
is a very important one!
If your wish isn’t already here, you are missing an
important ingredient; the thoughts and feelings that support
an environment your wish needs, to be created and
experienced in. The thoughts and feelings you need to be
working with is called “Insight”. “Insight” is the
information that can shift your focus. It allows you to know
how to think, feel and do, to be in alignment with what you
desire, so that The Ultimate Source can deliver.
This is why Wisdom Woods has The Wishing Tree.
Wishing Tree Reading is all about getting the Insight
you need to help you think, feel, and be in alignment with
your wish. You may think you know it all…..but the bottom
line is….if you did….you would already have it.
As we just clarified your thoughts, feelings and actions,
need to be in alignment with what you desire in order for it
to manifest. This means you need to be “believing” you can
experience your wish. You must believe it is possible. You
must have faith that you are a creator and that The Ultimate
Source is listening to your request, and wants to deliver.
You must believe you are worth giving yourself the gift of
your wish. With out faith, there is no belief, there will be
Belief is like sitting back and letting the oven do the
work. You have done the preparation (Desiring & working with
Insight), now it is time to allow the magic to happen and
bake up your wish. When you put a cake in the oven to bake,
that is exactly what you expect it to do, and you can walk
away from it for awhile, and put your attention on some
other things, knowing the cake will still be baking in the
oven ready for you when the time comes.
If you feel you are short on belief when it comes to your
wish, one of the best things you can do is find stories of
other people, and what wishes have come true for them. Try
to find stories in books, online, or through friends. Then
record a short summary of the story for yourself in a
journal. Keep adding to the list. It will build your belief
in what is possible. Then start noticing what good things
are happening for you in your life. Record them in a
journal. This builds your belief that the things that make
you feel good are available to you, which will keep you in
alignment with receiving your wish. This is one of the
reasons at Wisdom Woods you have a